Live Life LIT!

“Coaching with Ryan has made me feel like a new person and impacted every area of my life.” — B.K. - lawyer

This isn’t just life coaching.

It’s coaching that changes your life.

How did I get here?

Is that a familiar thought?

It was once a recurrent theme for me. Wondering what I was doing and why I was doing it. 

Now that you’ve recognised it, you know something has to change.

You want to do something meaningful that lights you up inside, but your limiting beliefs keep stopping you from connecting with what that is. 

And being exhausted and unfulfilled by things that take up 99% of your energy makes it feel impossible to find the motivation for real change.

I know a thing or two about where you’re at right now and would bet you’ve got anxiety about everything because you’re not sleeping – 

You’re lying awake, staring at the ceiling, wishing things were different.

I also bet you want to change, to try something different, but you’re fearful of failing miserably. 

After all, who wants their friends, family, and colleagues to see them as a failure? Who wants to admit their “dream life” is actually a miserable nightmare? 

So you stay stuck on your roller coaster, accepting the ups and downs from your high-stress, high-pressure career path because it’s supposedly more “comfortable” than change.

But the thing is – just because something is comfortable, it doesn’t mean it’s right for you.

You can still feel “stuck” in the comfort. 

You can still feel frustrated by the same things that keep you sliding back into old habits. 

Beating yourself up for not being happy, when you think you should be.

It’s not that you don’t want to make changes.

It’s just that change is hard, and you can’t keep expecting to make impactful life changes all by yourself.

You need support and accountability to live a life that’s more inspired, joyful, and fulfilled. 

I spent the last 5 of my 11 years in a high-powered BigLaw career feeling unhappy, unfulfilled, and unmotivated.

I knew my dysfunctional work environment meant that being a lawyer wasn’t right for me anymore. But I also didn’t believe I could quit and pursue something else.

When I finally overcame my lack of confidence (cleverly disguised as negative self-talk), I started coaching others like me who felt stuck in similar situations. 

It lights me up to see clients have those “a-ha” moments. Those flashes of clarity that spark a transformational chain reaction and bring them back to their true selves. 

In a world that tries to place people in boxes, my message is simple – you have a choice.

You can live the life you want.

You don’t have to do what you’ve always done and you don’t have to be who you’ve always been. 

Hey, I’m Ryan!

I’m so glad you’re here. 

Because I’ve been where you are.

Yeah, I know you’ve heard that before, haven’t you?

So let me give you the quick version of why that’s actually true in this case: 

Back in the day, I was living the dream of an international finance lawyer – I went from broke music exec in London to BigLaw lawyer in sunny Singapore.

But over time, the dream became less and less appealing.

I was stuck in a rut and could see a life ahead of me that I wasn’t sure I wanted.

A Christmas holiday to Bali, interrupted by yet another “emergency deal”, was the final straw. 

So I set off on a personal development quest down YouTube rabbit holes, via a trail of half-read books, and through a sea of Google search results, as I tried to figure out what I wanted in life and who I was beneath the BigLaw identity.

That quest helped me get clarity on my values, rediscover what was important to me, and slay the limiting beliefs that, until that point, had stopped me from doing what I knew I needed to do to change my life.

And that’s why I’m where I am now –

Helping awesomely ambitious humans like you get from where you are to where you want to be so you don’t have to spend years trying to figure it out alone. Like I did.

I’m the guy who can put himself into your shoes, see things from your perspective, and remember how it felt to feel like you do right now. 

You CAN do hard things. 

But that doesn’t mean you have to do them alone.

There are a lot of coaches out there for you to choose from.

And while many are experts at empathising with your situation and strategising to find a better way, most of them don’t have the background to really understand the demands on your time and mental capacity.

There’s a very specific set of pressures and stress levels that go hand in hand with BigLaw and corporate life, isn’t there?

That’s why I focus on helping people who are stuck in their seemingly ideal careers. 

Because I know what it feels like to be trapped by the illusion of having it all.  The “why aren’t you happy with what you’ve got?” beliefs.

Don’t do that to yourself. 

You’re allowed to feel doubt. 

You’re allowed to want something else.

Those are perfectly valid feelings to have.

That’s why I help lawyers and corporate professionals who are craving more than their current situation find inspiration, joy, and fulfilment through highly personalised 1:1 guidance, support, and accountability.

Find out what “something more” looks like for YOU

1:1 Coaching with Ryan

Your 12-week life coaching programme will leave you with:

✔ A roadmap for achieving clarity so you can find direction and meaning in whatever you do

✔ Confidence in who you are and the courage to consistently show up as your authentic self, even when it seems impossible

✔ Increased energy and focus to create balance and record levels of productivity

✔ Permanent habits that allow you to sustainably perform at your highest level without the stress, hustle, and overwhelm

✔ The ability to make impactful changes in your life right now, instead of feeling like you need to wait for the perfect time. (Psst: the perfect time is now!)

What you get:

• Unlimited Voxer access between sessions for those moments when you need support and you’re so done feeling stuck for even one more minute

• 12x 50-min weekly sessions to keep you on track while you navigate change, no matter what else is going on in your life. Feeling unsupported stops now!

• Recorded sessions so you can ditch the burden of cramming one more thing into your exhausted brain, learn to stay in the moment, and revisit advice when you need it most

• Post-session exercises to give you customised action steps that will set you up for long-term success well after our time together ends

• A programme tailored to YOU. I’m confident it’ll work for you because it’s made for you and doesn’t jam you into a one-size-fits-all box.

  • Half-way check-in to ensure we’re following your best path to success after the programme

  • Tools and habits to create life-long success. Once you learn a habit, it can be next to impossible to unlearn it, so we make sure you’re learning the right ones.

The TRIPLE C METHOD®️: Align your life with your values

In addition to customising a proven high-performance coaching framework to suit YOUR needs, we follow my Triple C Method®️ so you can:

• Gain Clarity

• Boost Confidence

• Build Courage 

• Live Life Lit!

In the easiest, most effective manner possible.

Clarity, Confidence, and Courage can feel like abstract concepts sometimes. 

We get deep into what they each really mean in our 12 weeks together. 

But even if we don’t work together, I want you to start thinking about what the 3 Cs mean for you:

• Clarity – make decision-making easy!

By asking yourself who you are, what you want, and why you want it, you can start giving your life meaning and direction.

Everything starts with clarity. And clarity starts with taking ACTION!

• Confidence – believe you’re capable of anything!

Shift your focus from limiting beliefs (which are nothing but a lack of confidence in your ability to achieve something with zero evidence to support that belief) and use the power of your thoughts to build yourself up.

Everyone is capable of being confident. You simply need to activate it!

• Courage – get to the life you’ve always wanted!

In a process I call “courage stacking”, exercise and strengthen your courage muscles so that what was once scary becomes easy and you can take your next step forward.

Change is hard. Change is scary. Change is uncomfortable. But you can do it all. I promise.

This time next year you won’t be dreaming of a better life –

you’ll be living it

You could pay tens of thousands of dollars to try other programmes that aren’t the best fit for you because they simply aren’t tailored to you.

Or they don’t understand the high-pressure, high-stress demands of your career.

Your personalised 12-week programme with someone who has been in your shoes is a GBP3,000 investment.

And I only take 10 clients at a time so I can give each one the time and attention that change like this takes.

Do you need to be one of the 10 clients I work with this year?

I can’t answer that. But you can:

What have you already invested in for your well-being and health that isn’t being put to its intended use because you’re stuck in a loop where you’re uninspired, unmotivated, and unfulfilled?

What will it feel like if you continue like this and wake up in 5 years wondering ‘what if I’d done something sooner?’

If you can’t wait that long to find out, hit that button, tell me about what you’re feeling right now, and let’s get on a call.

We’ll dive into more of what you’re looking to accomplish and if we agree the vibe is good, we’ll be ready to book your first session right away. 

No more messing around – let’s get you started living life LIT!